I have been in several relationships where the guy was acting like an asshole (or was an asshole), but I never called him that.
I may have thought it, but I never told anyone to their face or via text or anything. I have been prodded and provoked and still don't stoop to that level. And when people do it to me, I lose all respect for them.
I am not sure why I don't name call, but again, I'm very thankful for it!
I think name calling is rude and a below-the-belt immature thing to do. It's an insult and abusive.
I want even say the words asshole or bitch about anyone I am talking about, even if I feel that way. I just don't name call in any shape or form.
My gut is telling me I don't name call because I did it a few times in my past (prolly arguing with a b/f while drinking in my 20s) and saw sheer anger rise from their bodies when I called them a rude name. But I really don't remember exactly why I don't name call anyone.
I wish others were like this. When I see or hear name calling, obviously it bothers me because it's a trait I stand by.
No comments:
Post a Comment