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Wednesday, June 20, 2012

My Friends Know the Real Me

These two quotes resonate with me lately:

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I heard recently that someone was talking bad about me.  While I had heard before this woman was extremely jealous of me (for NO reason -  she has self esteem issues and doesn't like any single female to even say hello to her man), but I found out recently she was saying really crappy, untrue things about me.

Jealousy is a very sad, mean emotion that I wish didn't existed.  While I have the Green Monster living in me, also (I hate that little green monster), I have not been on the other end of a female that is jealous of me to the point of being vindictive.  And because of that, she talks bad of me.  Making things up, saying really unfortunate things about my character.  All because she's unsure of herself and her relationship.

I am very happy with my b/f and never even look at anyone else.  So, I'm actually very confused by her.

So, for someone to talk ill of me because they have issues with themselves is very disconcerting.

I try to take the high road when I can (it's a much better view!), so I just hope the way I have lived my life, and the way I treat my friends makes her words invalid; because they know the real me.


Monday, June 18, 2012

Hidden Litter Box

My neighbors back in San Antonio made this AWESOME kitty litter box hideaway!

It looks like a regular cabinet/table thingy, with a large door.

But what is hiding inside the stained "cabinet" is a litter box!  There is a clever hole on the side that the cat can walk through and then safely walk into the litter box.

The small walk-in for the cat is hidden on the side, so it isn't easily seen by people visiting your home.  And because the litter box is inside this "cabinet" it helps control the smell too.  Plus, we all know how cats like their privacy when doing their business!

The big door is for a good purpose - so you can easily take out the kitty litter box to clean it!

I have two of these.  I love them; extremely versatile.





Friday, June 15, 2012

Behind every recipe is a story: Mom's Spaghetti

My Mom had this great recipe for spaghetti!  She would make it once a month or so all my teenage years, and I would devour it in several sittings (it was enough for several meals).

We never had store bought spaghetti and even to this day, I cannot eat spaghetti at a restaurant, because it's not "Mom's Spaghetti."

My Mom knew what I did and did not like and most spaghetti sauces have huge chunks of onions in it, and I do NOT like onions.  If I take a bite of something and can feel an onion on my tongue, I spit it out, and push my plate away. YUCK!

I always visited my parents a couple of weekends a month while I was in college.  This one particular weekend, my Mom asked me what I wanted to eat and of course I said, "Mom's Spaghetti."

During the late afternoon on Saturday, I come flying through the kitchen to go into the backyard and I stop dead in my tracks.

"Mom, what are you doing!?!"  I say with a raised, upset voice.

"You KNOW I don't like onions!"

There they were, 2-3 big round onions sitting on the carving board.

"Melinda," she shares, "I've been putting onions in the spaghetti all these years, Honey."

I look at her dumbfounded.

"What?" I now say in a whispering, deflated, disappointed voice.

She continues, "I put them in the blender and the onion purees and you can't see it or feel it in your mouth. I've been doing it for years."

"You have?"

"Yes, and you never noticed, so you better eat dinner," she demanded.

I ate dinner that night (carefully at first) and it was still VERY tasty and Mom was right, I could not tell there were onions in it.

Years later, I get her spaghetti recipe from her because I'm craving the awesome taste of it.  I go to the grocery store and on the list for the spaghetti is "Two Medium Yellow Onions."

"Two medium yellow onions," I repeat in my head.

I am in the fresh vegetables area and I walk up to the onions.  I see there are white kinds and yellow kinds.

Medium?

WTH would be a "medium?"

Being as I HATE onions, I have never bought an onion before in my life.  Medium?  I tried my best to pick two medium yellow onions and went on my way with the rest of the recipe ingredients down the list.



I got home and made the spaghetti, putting the onions in the blender with the cans of whole tomatoes. Blending for a LONG time to ensure the onions aren't even visible, lol.

Turns out, now I buy even MORE onions for Mom's Spaghetti.  :)  Little did I know that's what gives the sauce it's sweet taste!   Two mediums will no longer suffice. :)

Mom's Spaghetti Recipe:

1 pound of hamburger
2 each-6oz can of Hunts tomato paste and sauce
2 can Hunts whole, peeled tomatoes (28oz)
2 yellow medium onions (blend in blender with whole tomatoes)
4 pinches of sweet basil and oregano
2 leaves of bay (not turkish)
4 pinches italian seasoning
3 pinches of (fine,ground)
4 pinches of minced garlic
1 cup of red win

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Turn Around Don't Drown - It could save your life!

I really wish this was a law in every sate:

Proposed PA Law Aims to Curb Flood Barricade By-Passers:
http://www.accuweather.com/en/weather-news/proposed-pa-law-aims-to-curb-f/65268

TURN AROUND DON'T DROWN people!!


Friendships are to be valued.

I can't begin to express that the ONLY reason I am surviving the loss of my Mom is because of friendships.



WikiPedia expresses this well:  The value of friendship is often the result of friends who consistently demonstrate:
  • The tendency to desire what is best for the other
  • Sympathy and empathy
  • Honesty, even in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth
  • Mutual understanding and compassion; ability to go to each other for emotional support
  • Enjoyment of each other's company
  • Trust in one another
  • Positive reciprocity — equal give-and-take between the two parties
  • The ability to be oneself, express one's feelings and make mistakes without fear of judgement

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

If something happens to me....

If something happens to me, don't feel sorry for me.  Because I will be very happy.... because I will be with my Mom!  :)

Monday, June 4, 2012

Burial at Sea

One of my coworkers passed away in Oct 2010.  This is a moving video of his burial at sea:



Burial at Sea aboard the USS PAUL HAMILTON (DDG-60) on April 18, 2012 just south of Oahu, Hawaii.

Robert Luke was a very good man.  He was the person who always stepped up to help others in need.  I will never forget what a selfless man he was towards others.  I can only imagine what his family has been through, as his death was unexpected.  It definitely was a shock to his other family - his coworkers. 

From Broadside Blog:  "This video was made public just before Memorial Day by his widow. It is the fitting last voyage of AGC (SW/AW) Robert Luke – we all knew him simply as Luke. The ceremony was conducted with pride by the crew of USS PAUL HAMILTON (DDG 60) just south of Oahu.
If you have never witnessed a burial at sea, this is a good example of how it should be done.
Rest in peace, Luke. "