I received one of those crazy chain emails the other day from a sweet friend. The thing is, this one I read and didn't delete because it was nice and thought provoking.
It is a list called "I BELIEVE FACTS OF LIFE."
I will list each one in separate blog, mostly because there are 24 of them and I can't possibly comment on all of them in one exponential post!
Here is #1:
I Believe...
That just because two people argue,
It doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
It doesn't mean they do love each other.
When I argue with a b/f I completely admit I think we are falling apart. Well, more fundamentally, I feel like every argument is me pushing them away. Yes, I usually start the arguments.
Recently, my b/f told me to stop being so insecure about our relationship. I have really heard his words. And lately I have had more confidence.
If I argued with my Mom and Dad, I always knew they still loved me, tho. Even with my ex husband, I knew he still loved me after an argument. With b/f's, though, I get nervous for some reason. Maybe it's because it's easier to break up than divorce, lol.
I remember when I was in middle school, I thought an argument meant we were broke up. The first time it happened, the guy had to tell me, "it was just a fight, we are still together." "Cool," I thought to myself.
I wonder where I got that from!? Wherever I got it from.... it must be why arguments make me so nervous.
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