Reflections: More Good Advice!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

More Good Advice!

From my friend Shayla:

"If you want to change the way you feel about people, you have to change the way you treat them" - Anne Lamont

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R Riley said...: Hmm.. I am a little conflicted on this... sometimes the way you feel about people revolves around the way they treat you.. so in that case if they treat you poorly are you supposed to treat them poorly back? Or ignore them?; June 17, 2009 at 2:02 PM

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The Four Agreements

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

More Good Advice!

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